Hi, I’m Alvie, and if you’re here, I already know you’re carrying more than most people will ever understand.
I know what it feels like to be overwhelmed, exhausted, and afraid. I know how deeply you want to protect your children. And I know the courage it takes to keep going when you feel like you have nothing left.
I’m a single mom of three young adults now, but when my own family court journey began, they were just babies. What I thought would be a short chapter stretched into twelve years of hearings, five trials, four custody battles, and more than $100,000 in legal fees.
I spent over a decade trying to protect my children in a system I didn’t understand—one that often felt cold, chaotic, and impossible to navigate.
There were days I was terrified of losing everything. Nights I questioned my strength and where I felt like no one could possibly understand what I was carrying.
But God understood.
I made Him a promise: If You carry me through this, I will help others find their way to the finish line too with grace and dignity.
That promise is why I’m here.
Everything I teach—every checklist, strategy, insight, and hard-earned lesson—is rooted in lived courtroom experience. Not AI, guesswork or speculation. Actual, raw wisdom gained from surviving the family court system as a petitioner, defendant, and pro se litigant.
DIVODY™ Academy, my mentoring, my downloads—all of it exists because I never want another parent to walk into this fight unprepared or unsupported the way I did.
So this space is my offering to you—a hand to hold when you need the strength, clarity, and faith to prepare for your family court journey.
Real clients.
Real stories.
Real strength.
Real outcomes.
Read testimonials from my clients
“…it’s like borrowing some of the faith and encouragement from you…”
“…it’s like borrowing some of the faith and encouragement from you…”
“…Alvie listens not only compassionately but strategically…”
“…Alvie listens not only compassionately but strategically…”
Down to earth and empathetic
“My session with Alvie gave me another perspective on my situation and invited God into the situation in a way I really appreciated. Alvie was down to earth and empathetic. I felt truly heard and encouraged using mainly the truth of God’s word. She was very knowledgeable and able to give good insight based upon her experiences.”
Matthew S., Father of two
“…I feel less alone and more equipped for this process…”
“…invited God into the situation in a way I really appreciated…”
“…invited God into the situation in a way I really appreciated…”
I felt understood
“My experience with Alvie made me feel extremely comfortable. She was able to put all my questions into one answer which was very relieving. I really appreciate the resources she provided to me during my custody situation. I literally felt like she understood me and was patient during our session. I plan to have another one with her.”
Courtney W., Mother of two
“She is very personable and down to earth, and provided wisdom, not just about the custody battle itself, but about how to maintain your sanity, and eventually heal from this.”
“She is very personable and down to earth, and provided wisdom, not just about the custody battle itself, but about how to maintain your sanity, and eventually heal from this.”
Witness stand prep
“Alvie was compassionate, experienced and helped me have a clearer perspective on my court hearings and situation. She also was clear about her knowledge from experience and not just saying what I want to hear, but gracefully telling me the reality of the court systems. Her own experience in how to conduct myself behind the stand was extremely helpful because I have gone through it and felt so pressured to answer in a certain way.”
Leslie M., Mom of one