Two divorce roadmaps. One for court preparation. One for spiritual survival.
Both built from twelve years in family court.
FOR DIVORCE + COURT PREPARATION
I Do, Solemnly Swear
My Whole Truth: Surviving Divorce, Custody Battles, and 12 Years Inside Family Court
Twelve years. Four custody battles. Five trials. More than $100,000 in legal fees. And 29 hidden realities she found out the hard way.
- What happens the moment a case number is assigned, and what you need to know before it does
- Why your attorney is not your friend, and how to best leverage them for your case and outcome
- How one email, sent in anger, can cost you custody
- What judges really see and hear when you are in their courtroom
If you’re a petitioner, defendant, or pro se litigant facing divorce or a custody battle, this book was written for you.
“Great, Alvie is compassionate, experienced and helped me have a clearer perspective on my court hearings and situation. This is a stressful time and it can feel like I am losing it. So to hear from someone who has actually gone through it was so helpful. This is stuff I pay my attorney to help with but there is an emotional and deep understanding that is not given from an attorney that I got from one call with her. It was a blessing.”
— Client testimonial (name has been redacted for privacy)
FOR SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE
IDSS: Devotional + Scripture Companion
A Guided Walk Through Scripture for Divorce and Custody Battles
Divorce and custody battles can be disorienting and unforgiving, especially inside the family court system. But hidden within that fight is something deeper: spiritual warfare like you’ve never encountered before.
- Personal prayers written in the middle of divorce and family court, not after the dust had settled
- Soul-searching devotionals for all 12 emotions of the fight, from betrayal to vindication, each paired with God’s Word for that exact battle
- Scripture to carry into the courtroom, the sleepless nights, and the silent moments when words fail you
“For anyone walking through the pain of a divorce or custody battle, this devotional is a trusted lamp for your feet. Alvie gently unravels the family court experience with truth, grace, vulnerability, and hope. She is living proof that you can draw closer to God in the midst of your trial and be restored, even after losing it all.”
— Linda Green, Domestic Violence and Abuse Advocate, Founder of Christ Centered Empowerment for Families
GET THE BUNDLE AND SAVE
One book equips you with the hidden realities of family court no one tells you about. The other sustains you through the emotional and spiritual toll of the fight. Together, they are a two-book system built on one principle: preparation.
One book equips you with the hidden realities of family court no one tells you about. The other sustains you through the emotional and spiritual toll of the fight. Together, they are a two-book system built on one principle: preparation.
ALVIE MCNAIR
Founder | Speaker | Author
A former corporate communications executive and 12-year family court survivor, she took everything the boardroom and the courtroom taught her and built a roadmap for those who come after her.
Alvie didn’t just survive the system: she became a student of it, so families don’t have to learn the hard way. Today, her work mentors parents navigating divorce, custody battles, and family court, equips attorneys through continuing education, and trains nonprofit organizations to better serve families impacted by the system.