“but you don’t look like what you’ve been through.”
The most common response to my family court testimony. And they’re right!
I don’t look like a mom who spent over $100,000 in legal fees bouncing around the family court system like a worn-out pinball between hearings, trials, custody evaluations (yep, plural, I had three), restraining orders, depositions, and multiple courtrooms across two states.
And I surely don’t look like a mom who gained custody of her three children, then lost it, only to fight and regain custody.
But I do look like God’s grace and a mom who found a way to overcome the family court system and gain a better version of herself in the process. That is my hope for you!
–Bio
Alvie McNair
Divorce + Custody Mentor
Alvie is a single mom raising three teenagers who dedicates her time to supporting others through the challenges of divorce and court battles. Having endured 12 grueling years within the family court system, fighting several custody battles, countless hearings, and more than $100k in legal fees, Alvie intimately understands the toll divorce can take, especially on children caught in the crossfire.
Her firsthand knowledge and earned-by-trial-and-error wisdom serves as a personal roadmap for those facing similar struggles. Driven by her own experiences, Alvie is passionate about equipping her mentees and students of her online course, the DIVODY™ Academy, with invaluable insights, tools, and resources to navigate the complexities of family court with confidence and resilience.
Her “soul goal” is simple: to empower individuals to prepare, withstand and overcome their family court journey and give them hope.