Handholding parents through every side of the family court system, one family at a time

Alvie McNair | Divorce + Custody Mentor

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Part memoir. Part manual. All truth. Everything I wish someone had explained to me before my court case.

Handholding parents through every side of the family court system, one family at a time

Alvie McNair | Divorce + Custody Mentor

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Part memoir. Part manual. All truth. Everything I wish someone had explained to me before my court case.

12 Years. 5 Trials. 4 Custody Battles.

One mission—to make sure you avoid the mistakes I made and overcome.

If you’re feeling lost, confused, or afraid, I know exactly what that feels like.

I spent 12 years trapped inside the family court system, fighting for my family and it nearly broke me emotionally, financially, and mentally. But through faith, strategy, and resilience, I found my way out—and now I’m here to help you find yours.

Through mentoring, online courses, and faith-based resources, I help parents prepare, withstand, and overcome the emotional and legal challenges of family court without losing themselves in the process.

It’s the personal handholding I once needed, and now get to offer to you.

You don’t need to have all the answers right now. You just need someone who understands what you’re facing. Well, you’ve found her.

I’ve faced the family court system more than once. Each time, I learned lessons that saved me money, heartache, and years of confusion. Those lessons became the foundation of the tools, support and guidance I now offer to help you do the same.

One-on-One Mentorship

Real talk. Real strategy. Real support. We’ll walk through your situation together so you can make smarter moves, save on attorney fees, and show up prepared for whatever’s ahead.

DIVODY™ Academy

Your crash course in surviving and overcoming family court. Inside my signature online program, I’ll teach you how to prepare, withstand, and overcome with the same faith and strategies that carried me through 12 years of court battles.

Downloads & Resources

Save time, money, and frustration with my custom checklists, templates, and tools. These resources are designed to help you make better decisions and stay organized, focused, and emotionally steady throughout the process.

DIVORCE SURVIVAL STARTER BUNDLE

You can’t control the system, but you can control how ready you are for it.

If you’re overwhelmed with where to begin, what you need most isn’t another legal opinion—it’s a roadmap.

Walk into your case ready. This bundle packs everything—documentation, attorney prep, the Survival Guide—and the BONUS Case Checklist Bundle so you don’t make the costly mistakes most people do.

Real clients.
Real stories.
Real strength.
Real outcomes.

Read testimonials from my clients

“…it’s like borrowing some of the faith and encouragement from you…”

“…Alvie listens not only compassionately but strategically…”

Down to earth and empathetic

“My session with Alvie gave me another perspective on my situation and invited God into the situation in a way I really appreciated. Alvie was down to earth and empathetic. I felt truly heard and encouraged using mainly the truth of God’s word. She was very knowledgeable and able to give good insight based upon her experiences.”

Matthew S., Father of two

“…I feel less alone and more equipped for this process…”

“…invited God into the situation in a way I really appreciated…”

I felt understood

“My experience with Alvie made me feel extremely comfortable. She was able to put all my questions into one answer which was very relieving. I really appreciate the resources she provided to me during my custody situation. I literally felt like she understood me and was patient during our session. I plan to have another one with her.”

Courtney W., Mother of two

“She is very personable and down to earth, and provided wisdom, not just about the custody battle itself, but about how to maintain your sanity, and eventually heal from this.”

Witness stand prep

“Alvie was compassionate, experienced and helped me have a clearer perspective on my court hearings and situation. She also was clear about her knowledge from experience and not just saying what I want to hear, but gracefully telling me the reality of the court systems. Her own experience in how to conduct myself behind the stand was extremely helpful because I have gone through it and felt so pressured to answer in a certain way.”

Leslie M., Mom of one

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Family court rewards the prepared

My clients started exactly where you are—unsure, overwhelmed, and exhausted. But they took that first step and trusted me to guide them. The result? They found their footing, courage, and voice.

God turned their hardest seasons into stories of hope and He can do the same for you.

Survival Guide

Get the guide I wish I had when I was fighting for my family to help you stay calm, organized, and confident through every stage of the process.

Online Courses

Join my online course and community, the DIVODY Academy, to get help for your family law case including access to me and all my knowledge and resources.

Mentorship

Sometimes, God sends someone who’s already walked your path. Together, we’ll quiet the chaos, strengthen your strategy, and help you step into court with peace and purpose.

Partnerships

Products and resources to help you serve your clients needs

Attorneys

Here’s the truth: your clients need more than legal advice—they need emotional grounding and practical guidance. That’s where I come in. I handle what you can’t ethically do: preparing them for court, helping them manage communication, and keeping them steady throughout the process, so you can focus on winning, not crisis control.

Counselors

You understand how deeply divorce and custody battles can wound the heart and mind. Healing those wounds takes two things: you + me. By integrating my white-label downloads and DIVODY™ Academy into your practice, you’ll empower clients to manage the courtroom stress that often hinders their progress, helping them heal faster and more fully.

Churches

Divorce care does not start at recovery; it begins at the time a court case number is provided. Churches don’t have to overlook their members who are suffering through divorce and custody battles anymore. I offer trusted, faith-base support to handhold members through the family court system.

One conversation can change everything.

Get the lessons I learned the hard way — the ones most attorneys will never tell you. Receive real insights, simple strategies, and faith-filled encouragement from one parent to another.